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T O P I C R E V I E WLionessok long story short. I have worked with this guy for 5 years. He's not my "type" but anyways I always kinda watched him from afar and I had urges just to touch him... Well right after me and my husband split, I talked to him in length and I havent been the same since. I was finally able to get a composite chart with me and him and WOW.... OMG.. Well needless to say we hooked up right away... LOL only now its kinda hummm mixed up.. IDK what to do... Well here are the aspects from a composite chart.his moon in my 8thmoon conj plutovenus oppo jupitervenus oppo plutovenus trine neptuneasc trine moonmc conj uranusmc quincunx venusNorth node in the 10thtrue node conj marstrue node opps suntrue node opps mercuryblack moon lilith in the 9thtrue lilith conj jupitertrue lilith oppo chirontrue lilit semisextile true nodeeros in the 1stceres conj neptuneceres trine neptunevesta conj chironsappho conj neptunepsyche conj true nodepsyche conj marseros square mceros trine jupitereros trine plutoeros sextile neptunevenus chiron vesta in 3rd houseThis in only a few that really stand out.. Not to mention all the other stuff... In a synastry chart my venus, saturn is in his 7th househis sun,mercury,mars are in my 12thetc etc...Please tell me what you see here...oneruledbymarsLioness: its definetly a soul mate relationship. I'm curious, did you check your Vertex placements, its a profound clue as well.Checkout:Valentine, Kaali, Angel, Isis, Osiris, Horus, DNA, Spirit, Karma, DestinnThat will give some clues as well.What's important now is to detach.Does that make sense?In a Soulmate relationship, initially we must protect ourselves Energetically so that it doesn't pull from us and transform the Plutonian way and with all that Pluto unless you transcend by using the Neptunian Energy in the connection you will go through a transformation but one of you will hit rock bottom in the process, just depends on who is more blinded by there emotional life to see the connection for what it really is..a wake up call.If are able to detach though you can learn the lesson faster with less downtown time....if he is the one then time and detachment will help you get to know him for who he is and it keeps us from projecting because it takes the Ego out.Soulmate relationships are exhilirating and they can put us on the fast track with Karma, but they can be traps as well.Hope this helps.In the meantime if its going good, enjoy it.I'm curious what's mixed up about it?He feels like he might be a runner that's why I ask that?LionessIm new to astrogloy so I dont know about the vertex or how to look into it. Actually he brought me to astrogoly bc he put me a spirtual path to "find" myself. SO Im just learning. Whats mixed up about it?? LOl.. Everything he's a Pisces with a Scorpio moon. Should I say more??? LOLIDK its really weird. Our relationship is a complete and total secret. BC of work Im a manger and he's not... No one knows and we have our own little world together. But that also puts a strain on this... We have gotten so intense that it became inapproiate and one day we said hey we should stop and both of us were like OK.. COOL... That was in Jan.. Only now were in March and we are not "hooking up" any more. but we cant let go either.. The pull is strong... and I know he feels it he's even expressed to me, how he desires me and just wants to touch me.. But he pushes that away and runs.. But comes back... and runs and comes back... He says he wants to be just friends, but then tells me he desires me soo badly.... IDK I just dont know how to handle or what to do.... Im at a complete loss... But Im obbessed with it also.. LOL Neptune/Pluto aspect...One aspect even said if we look into each others eyes we will see a mirror in ourselfs... (sorry forgot which one.) You said its important to detach... What do you mean??? HOW??? oneruledbymarsSorry to be just not getting back to you Lioness...If you go on Astro.com you have an option to show the Vertex when you do a chart. The Vertex is very helpful in my opinion when it comes to pinpointing fated events. That were bound to happen which helps us accept the situation and deal with it... because on some level you know you are enduring something bigger than you...Keeps us from being the Victim as much.So he put you on the "path" huh, thats usually the purpose of soulmate relationship.Emotional detachmentin the sense that I speak of...is more along the lines of mental assertiveness.I does not mean you cannot connect with your emotions, but just the opposite. You connect to them so well that you do not act off of them, you rise above them. To a logical place to think, where emotions cannot take control. So that your decision is 50 emotion and 50 logic.In order to realize that you must understand your emotions in relation to your chakra system and how that works.But for a simple explanation. To detach you must learn not to engage the emotions of others, or a least you have the ability to choose when to do so...For instance in this situation the person is pushing away from you and running....but comes back and runs and comes back and....so on and so forth.Basically he has you on a rollercoaster ride, and your emotions are starting to feel drained and so your thought pattern is turning negative...you think your obsessed and at a complete loss, no?So then you must take your emotions out of it, the moment things go negative. You must protect your energy. But in order to do that, you must understand that all is energy...that you are energy...and that when you are caught in situations like this.. you are allowing your energy to be syphoned by the negative frequencies you are tuning into.You must deal with him the way a parent would a child begging to eat dessert before dinner. He must eat his food so that he has healthy nutrients in his body and his desert last...he doesnt know this so he keeps begging...yet his parent will tune him out...not because they dont care or arent empathetic..but because they are approaching the situation with Wisdom gained from knowledge...you must approach this relationship the same way.Ask yourself...rationally...would you treat someone you were in love with the way he is treating you?The leaving and the coming back....the just be friends but still sexually attracted?Would you do that to someone or would you just be with them?Also is that how you treat yourself...do you only love yourself sometimes...and not all the time...would you deliberately do something to yourself that you know is not loving?I guess what Im asking is on a scale 0-100 how much do you love yourself?
his moon in my 8thmoon conj plutovenus oppo jupitervenus oppo plutovenus trine neptuneasc trine moonmc conj uranusmc quincunx venusNorth node in the 10thtrue node conj marstrue node opps suntrue node opps mercuryblack moon lilith in the 9thtrue lilith conj jupitertrue lilith oppo chirontrue lilit semisextile true nodeeros in the 1stceres conj neptuneceres trine neptunevesta conj chironsappho conj neptunepsyche conj true nodepsyche conj marseros square mceros trine jupitereros trine plutoeros sextile neptune
venus chiron vesta in 3rd houseThis in only a few that really stand out.. Not to mention all the other stuff...
In a synastry chart my venus, saturn is in his 7th househis sun,mercury,mars are in my 12thetc etc...
Please tell me what you see here...
Checkout:Valentine, Kaali, Angel, Isis, Osiris, Horus, DNA, Spirit, Karma, Destinn
That will give some clues as well.What's important now is to detach.
Does that make sense?In a Soulmate relationship, initially we must protect ourselves Energetically so that it doesn't pull from us and transform the Plutonian way and with all that Pluto unless you transcend by using the Neptunian Energy in the connection you will go through a transformation but one of you will hit rock bottom in the process, just depends on who is more blinded by there emotional life to see the connection for what it really is..a wake up call.If are able to detach though you can learn the lesson faster with less downtown time....if he is the one then time and detachment will help you get to know him for who he is and it keeps us from projecting because it takes the Ego out.Soulmate relationships are exhilirating and they can put us on the fast track with Karma, but they can be traps as well.
Hope this helps.
In the meantime if its going good, enjoy it.I'm curious what's mixed up about it?
He feels like he might be a runner that's why I ask that?
Whats mixed up about it?? LOl.. Everything he's a Pisces with a Scorpio moon. Should I say more??? LOL
IDK its really weird. Our relationship is a complete and total secret. BC of work Im a manger and he's not... No one knows and we have our own little world together. But that also puts a strain on this... We have gotten so intense that it became inapproiate and one day we said hey we should stop and both of us were like OK.. COOL... That was in Jan.. Only now were in March and we are not "hooking up" any more. but we cant let go either.. The pull is strong... and I know he feels it he's even expressed to me, how he desires me and just wants to touch me.. But he pushes that away and runs.. But comes back... and runs and comes back... He says he wants to be just friends, but then tells me he desires me soo badly.... IDK I just dont know how to handle or what to do.... Im at a complete loss... But Im obbessed with it also.. LOL Neptune/Pluto aspect...
One aspect even said if we look into each others eyes we will see a mirror in ourselfs... (sorry forgot which one.)
You said its important to detach... What do you mean??? HOW???
Emotional detachmentin the sense that I speak of...is more along the lines of mental assertiveness.I does not mean you cannot connect with your emotions, but just the opposite. You connect to them so well that you do not act off of them, you rise above them. To a logical place to think, where emotions cannot take control. So that your decision is 50 emotion and 50 logic.In order to realize that you must understand your emotions in relation to your chakra system and how that works.But for a simple explanation. To detach you must learn not to engage the emotions of others, or a least you have the ability to choose when to do so...For instance in this situation the person is pushing away from you and running....but comes back and runs and comes back and....so on and so forth.Basically he has you on a rollercoaster ride, and your emotions are starting to feel drained and so your thought pattern is turning negative...you think your obsessed and at a complete loss, no?
So then you must take your emotions out of it, the moment things go negative. You must protect your energy. But in order to do that, you must understand that all is energy...that you are energy...and that when you are caught in situations like this.. you are allowing your energy to be syphoned by the negative frequencies you are tuning into.
You must deal with him the way a parent would a child begging to eat dessert before dinner. He must eat his food so that he has healthy nutrients in his body and his desert last...he doesnt know this so he keeps begging...yet his parent will tune him out...not because they dont care or arent empathetic..but because they are approaching the situation with Wisdom gained from knowledge...you must approach this relationship the same way.
Ask yourself...rationally...would you treat someone you were in love with the way he is treating you?The leaving and the coming back....the just be friends but still sexually attracted?Would you do that to someone or would you just be with them?
Also is that how you treat yourself...do you only love yourself sometimes...and not all the time...would you deliberately do something to yourself that you know is not loving?I guess what Im asking is on a scale 0-100 how much do you love yourself?
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